Aunty Christine blog
-
Diddy on Trial: The Witnesses, The Testimony, and the Pattern That Can’t Be Ignored
For weeks now, the trial of Sean “Diddy” Combs has been unfolding in a federal courtroom in New York. The charges are serious: sex trafficking, racketeering conspiracy, and transporting individuals to engage in prostitution. Below is a detailed list of the key witnesses who’ve taken the stand so far—and what…
#MeToo, Aunty Christine blog, believe women, Cassie Ventura testimony, celebrity accountability, cultural reckoning, Diddy trial, feminist blog, feminist perspective, justice for survivors, Me Too, midlife feminism, power and abuse, public figures on trial, Sean Combs, sex trafficking trial, survivor voices, trial updates, witness testimony, women’s rights -
My Closet Is Gaslighting Me
There was a time, not all that long ago, when my closet and I had a solid understanding. I bought the clothes. It held the clothes. And together, we made a reasonable attempt at fashion and function. But lately? I open those closet doors and it’s like I’ve stumbled into…
Aunty Christine blog, body changes after 40, closet cleanout, closet confessions, comfort over trends, elastic waistbands forever, fashion freedom, fashion rebellion, funny blog post, Gen X humor, midlife confidence, midlife fashion, no more skinny jeans, perimenopause style, personal style evolution, real talk for women, redefining sexy, Starting Over at 47, wardrobe detox, women’s midlife makeover -
Ghost Signs of Baltimore: The City’s Faded Echoes Still Speaking
There’s something hauntingly beautiful about the old advertisements you’ll find painted on the brick walls of buildings across Baltimore. They’re not fresh murals or trendy street art, they’re the faded echoes of a bygone era. These vintage hand-painted ads, often referred to as ghost signs, once shouted from the rooftops…
-
When Boundaries Feel Like Suggestions (And You’re Tired of Repeating Yourself)
You ever lay down a boundary just to watch someone treat it like a speed bump? Yeah, me too. Let’s get one thing straight: boundaries are not invitations for negotiation. They are not “cute little requests” or things you throw out just to see if someone will respect them. They…
-
Boundaries, Jealousy, and Insecurity: Know the Difference
Let’s get something straight: setting boundaries does not make you insecure. And feeling jealous doesn’t automatically mean you’re crazy. And having insecurities? Welcome to being human. The thing is, these three often get lumped into the same messy bucket, but they’re not the same, and knowing the difference can save…
-
Her.
Some people just say “Mom,” like it’s a regular word. But for me, it was always her. She was the first face I looked for in a crowd, the last voice I heard before falling asleep. She was the one I wanted to tell when something went wrong, and the…
Aunty Christine blog, forever her, grief and healing, grief on holidays, healing after loss, heartfelt reflections, honoring her memory, losing a mother, love and loss, maternal love, midlife emotions, mother daughter bond, Mother’s Day without mom, navigating loss, personal growth, remembering her, remembering mom, Starting Over at 47, two year anniversary of loss, women over 40 -
Integrity or Bust (Because I’m Too Grown for Anything Less)
Let me just say it plain: I want integrity in my life, and I’m not willing to settle for anything less. At this point in the game, 47 years old, freshly navigating a divorce, starting over in just about every area of my life, I don’t have the energy or…
Aunty Christine blog, authentic relationships, boundaries and standards, character over convenience, choosing real, clarity is power, emotional healing, emotional maturity, Gen X perspective, honesty and values, integrity lifestyle, integrity matters, intentional living, life lessons, living with integrity, midlife mindset, midlife wisdom, moral compass, no more settling, personal growth, personal power, protecting your peace, radical honesty, real talk, self worth, self-respect, Starting Over at 47, truth over trends, unapologetic living, values that guide me -
Tiny Wings, Big Peace: How Birdwatching Became My Therapy
I didn’t expect to fall head over heels for a bird feeder. Honestly, I bought it on a whim, just another late-night scroll-and-click moment on Amazon. But what I thought would just be a simple backyard decoration turned out to be something so much more. It became my daily dose…
Aunty Christine blog, backyard birds, bird feeder blog, bird feeder camera, bird feeder therapy, bird watching joy, birds of Maryland, comfort in routine, daily rituals, emotional healing, feathered friends, finding calm, Gen X wellness, healing after divorce, healing through nature, mental health support, midlife healing, mindfulness in nature, nature as therapy, outdoor joy, peaceful moments, perky-pet bird feeder, personal growth, quirky healing methods, reconnecting with nature, self-care ideas, simple pleasures, solo journey healing, Starting Over at 47, unexpected happiness -
What Mother’s Day Really Means to Me Now
Let’s talk about Mother’s Day, shall we? Every second Sunday in May, the world gets flooded with commercials featuring flowers, brunch menus, and perfect families with matching smiles. And don’t get me wrong, I love a good mimosa and a heartfelt card. But when you’ve lived a few decades, lost…
Anna Jarvis, Aunty Christine blog, bittersweet holidays, complicated holidays, dog mom life, emotional healing, family traditions, generational love, grief and loss, healing after loss, heartfelt reflections, Honoring My Mom, legacy of love, life after loss, matriarch energy, Midlife Reflections, mom memories, mother-daughter love, Mother’s Day, Mother’s Day history, Mother’s Day meaning, motherhood, motherhood journey, personal growth, real talk for women, remembering mom, sentimental moments, Starting Over at 47, stepmom feelings, women over 40 -
Starting Over at 47: Digital Decluttering — Why I’m Unsubscribing, Unfollowing, and Untangling My Brain
You know what I realized the other day? My phone has become a junk drawer for my brain. Seriously. I opened my email and had 6,413 unread messages. Most of them were from places I haven’t shopped at for years. I opened Instagram and saw a post from someone I…
Aunty Christine blog, clearing mental space, digital boundaries, digital decluttering, digital detox, digital minimalism, email overload, everyday empowerment, Gen X women, intentional living, Life Reset, mental clutter, midlife clarity, Midlife Transformation, mindfulness in midlife, minimalist mindset, online boundaries, overwhelmed by tech, peaceful mornings, perimenopause and peace, reclaiming time, screen time balance, self-care for women, simplifying life, slowing down, smartphone sanity, social media break, Starting Over at 47, tech overwhelm, unsubscribe culture -
A Deep Dive into the Gen X Woman’s Sexual Awakening, Confusion, and Reclamation
Okay, Gen X sisters. Let’s have a heart-to-heart. Let’s talk about how we actually learned about sex. Spoiler alert: it wasn’t during some sweet, coming-of-age moment with a parent lovingly explaining the birds and the bees while handing us a pamphlet and a hug. Nope. For most of us? It…
Aunty Christine blog, body confidence, embracing desire, female desire, Gen X identity, Gen X women, generational differences, healing shame, midlife relationships, midlife sexuality, perimenopause and sex, real talk for women, reclaiming sexuality, sensuality after 40, sex and aging, sexual empowerment, sexual freedom, sexual healing, Starting Over at 47, taboo topics, women over 40, women’s liberation