One thing about me that most people probably wouldn’t understand is how deeply my sense of family and loyalty has been shaped by everything I’ve been through—especially after my mother’s passing.

People might not realize just how much that loss changed me. It wasn’t just grief; it was a shift in my entire world. The betrayals, the distance from certain family members, the way relationships unraveled—it all left scars. But at the same time, it taught me who truly belongs in my life.

Some people don’t understand why I don’t just “move on” or “make amends,” but for me, it’s not about holding grudges—it’s about self-respect, healing, and protecting my peace. I’ve learned to set boundaries unapologetically, to walk away when I need to, and to hold onto the people who truly care.

Now, I’m creating my own version of family. That’s what truly matters to me.

Daily writing prompt

What’s something most people don’t understand?

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